WHAT IS NLP?
Neuro-Linguistic Programming describes the fundamental dynamics between mind, language and the science of the brains communication to the body.
Our autonomic nervous system regulates how our bodies function, language determines how we communicate with other people and our BELIEF SYSTEMS determine the outcome regardless of the truth we will believe what we want to believe.
WHY IS NLP SO EFFECTIVE?
NLP is about the fix, traditional therapy is about the process. Normal questions a therapist would ask “Why do you feel that way” “How does it make you feel when that happens” Those are wonderful questions but the problem is those questions keep you in the problem. The reason we go to therapy is to get rid of the problem. NLP was designed to speed the process up and go to the fix.
What is the Fix?
The fix is a belief system lets look at the problem from a common sense point of view. First we must fully understand what a belief system is; a belief system is a set of mutually supportive beliefs. The beliefs of any such system can be classified as religious, philosophical, ideological, or a combination of these. The only way we can make a belief system real or true is we must attach a VERY SOPHISTICATED SET OF RULES AND GUIDELINES TO MAKE IT TRUE. We call this the Justified true belief is a definition of knowledge that is most frequently credited to Plato and his dialogues. The concept of justified true belief states that in order to know that a given proposition is true, one must not only believe the relevant true proposition, but one must also have justification for doing so.
WHAT PEOPLE NEVER SEEM TO UNDERSTAND
All belief systems may or may not be true
Here’s how we fix it
NLP breaks all the patterns or disrupts the speech patterns the brain sends to the body daily as we go through life with these certain sets of rules and guidelines we believe to be true. The problem is some belief systems are not very healthy they don’t serve us at all; as a matter of fact some of our belief systems are so unhealthy they actually make us sick to the point of actually changing our cell structure even to the point of passing our disenchanted cell structure down to the next generation. Think about it look at your parents and look at you and look at your children if you have children and you will find a pattern all the way down to your health care.
So all we have to do is find the belief systems, find the triggers and change the pattern of speech the brain fires off to the body. All belief systems may or may not be true and if yours isn't working for you then we break the pattern and replace the belief system with one that does make you feel happy healthy and whole.
Breaking the bad patterns
NLP is a combination of several emotional freeing techniques. If you could imagine acupuncture, hypnosis, psychology, psychotherapy and a computer programmer as a modality to heal people then you would have a good idea of what and how NLP truly works.
I would give you a very brief example of just one of the ways it works.
I had a client who couldn’t get over the loss of her dog. She was crying and crying and very distraught and almost to the point of irrational when we were speaking on the phone. I asked her when the dog pass away she said 4 years ago. I said so for the last four years your days are spent crying kinda like this and she said yes. So I asked her several questions designed to find the trigger what's behind all this loss and crying. Please understand the dog did die science can prove that so its not a belief system that the dog is dead, the pain and loss and all the other stuff she feels is ALL A BELIEF SYSTEM that may or not be true. The day the dog died in her belief system, her life ended. Her friend and love and life long companion died …. The only one who loves and understands me is gone …so I am lost. (not a healthy belief system)
We fixed the problem in probably 15 minutes, that's how long it took to change that belief system into another belief system that made her feel happy. So this is how it works
See these points on this diagram those are called meridians and they act like windows or portals You can draw energy to you like for example the laws of attraction or you can remove things from you like trauma or shame or grief or in this case the loss of a dog. So what we do is tap on those points shown on the diagram we don’t have to tap on them all that’s not necessary we just tap on a few. When we tap on our face for example we immediately feel relaxed and we accomplish two things we busy the conscious mind while tapping and we open a portal to the subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind is holding the belief system that is no longer serving you. So while she was tapping I spoke to her subconscious mind over the phone she had ear phones on her cell phone and I simply explained that the dead dog doesn’t want to be trapped in her body and if she loved the dog she would free it and allow the dog to be happy in heaven and that the dog is not the source of her happiness and the dog was a part of her life but NOT HER LIFE and life goes on and we will now tap into our true source of happiness and for her that was God. So the dog was happy being in heaven playing with the angels and playing fetch with God and now she can be happy with God here on hearth her dog doesn’t want her to cry nor does her father in heaven. So we replaced the language she speaks to herself and we gave here a new set of sophisticated rules and guileless to follow that heal her not burden her and when she stops tapping the subconscious mind floods the conscious mind with the new belief system and believe it or not she believed it .In 15 minutes she was perfectly fine and happy, she believed her new set of belief systems and she was actually healed from Lyme disease that day she had light sensitivity and she was bed ridden when we spoke I didn’t know that and she went for a drive the next day and she got her life back the minute she let go and allowed herself to believe something that made her happy and it literally freed her Mind Body and Spirit .
Why does NLP fix our health?
Because free people free people and hurt people hurt people and when we become free from our past we are free……..we are free to heal. You can find that pattern over and over and over again in the bible. Jesus used NLP to restore Peter after he denied Jesus three times Peter was devastated with his lack of manhood and lack of dedication to his dear friend and teacher. He left the faith and went back to fishing Jesus appeared to peter on the shore with the same coal Peter warmed his hands with that day in the court yard. Jesus appeared the same time of day when the rooster crows and Jesus made Peter tell him three times YES JESUS I LOVE YOU Peter was restored and then went on to become the rock Jesus planted his church on. That was the first day of Christianity as we know it the movement continued. FREE PEOPLE, FREE PEOPLE
What’s your next step?
Pick up the phone and call me or email me and let’s chat. This is your life it’s not a dress rehearsal take back your life and let go of the past and trust me the sky is the limit.